Hurricanes Harvey and Irma

Thoughts about Hurricanes Harvey and Irma: “When all else falls away, these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.” (1 Corinthians 13:13) Faith is defined as complete trust or confidence in someone or something for which there is no proof. You alone decide what you yourself trust and believe in. Hope is also a feeling of trust. It is to anticipate with expectation that something is indeed possible. Hope is based on a realistic view of things, and it presses on and looks ahead. Love, or charity, is the voluntary giving that comes from compassion. Generous people give not just what they have, but of who they are. They share their resources, their time, their wisdom, and their attention. In the wake of the overwhelming destruction of Hurricanes Harvey and Irma, these three gifts are perhaps the only three things that last forever. We each have opportunities to open our hearts and hands to the needs of our neighbors. It does not matter how big or how small the offering of help is; it matters that we each give what we can. In this time of despair and overwhelming loss from the hurricanes, we can heal the divisions within our country and unite our hearts by giving faith, hope, and love in whatever way we can. James Allen said in his book From Poverty to Power: “Let your soul expand, let your heart reach out to others in loving and generous warmth, and great and lasting will be your joy, and all prosperity will come to you.”

Why a middle name?

In ancient Rome, having multiple names was an honor usually bestowed upon the most important people—like Gaius Julius Caesar. During the Middle Ages, people generally had only one fixed name. Any other name that was added was used as a form of description about the person, such as John the Baker or William the Smith. A name also told about the person’s ancestry, such as Jackson (son of Jack), or it was an indication of the place where the person lived, such as Brooke or Ford. It could be an occupation, as well, like Taylor or Cooper. Other middle names described a physical characteristic, such as Cameron (bent nose) or Cole (black as coal). Middle names died out only to pick back up again in Western cultures in the 1700s, when aristocrats started giving their children long names to indicate their place in society. Eventually, middle names were used to help distinguish children in their communities or they served religion roles, such as using a saint’s name to bless the child. Many middle names are surnames depicting a person’s lineage, especially in Spanish and Arabic cultures. They also give a person the option to use either first or middle names, depending on their likes. In my book Inspired Baby Names from Around the World, the point is made that middle often serve as adjectives to describe first names. For example, Nelson Mandela’s middle name was Rolihlahla, which means “pulling the branch of a tree” or “troublemaker.” Nelson means “cloud,” but also means “champion.” This name fit Nelson Mandela extraordinarily well: as everyone knows, he was imprisoned by the South African apartheid government for being a “troublemaker,” and yet he became a champion of human rights. His troublemaking cloud had a silver line, one that inspired millions around the world!

If your name is Betty

If your name is Betty, it is the English form of Elizabeth, from the Hebrew word el’ishebha, meaning “God is my oath, joined with God, blessed by God.” You are blessed by God by being in union with the Divine. An oath is a promise, and your name reveals that innately you have promised to be in union with God. This joining is mutual, as God is also in union with you. God said in Joshua 1:9: “The Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.” Ralph Waldo Trine said in his book In Tune with the Infinite: “To be at one with God is to be at peace.” Through this union there is much blessing. The dictionary tells us that to bless is “to consecrate and to make holy. William Butler Yeats said in his poem “The Two Trees:” Beloved, gaze in thine own heart, / The holy tree is growing there.” Holiness is deep within your heart and is a part of your essence. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow said in The Spanish Student: “In that stillness which most becomes a woman, calm and holy, thou sittest by the fireside of the heart, feeding its flame.” Be at peace and know that you are truly blessed and made holy in your union with the Divine.

If your name is Olivia

If your name is Olivia, it is from the Greek word elaia meaning “olive,” or the French word olivia meaning “olive tree.” The olive is the most important classical fruit tree of the Mediterrean basin. A hardy tree, it provided a staple diet and valuable oil used for cooking, light, and anointing. Due to is long life, the olive tree was a central agricultural component of many ancient cultures and was seen as a gift from the gods. The Encyclopedia Judaica states: “There are trees in Israel estimated to be 1,000 years old that still produce fruit. In old age the tree becomes hollow but the trunk continues to grow thicker, at times achieving a circumference of 20 feet….It is an evergreen, and the righteous who take refuge in the protection of God are compared to it.” Historically the olive tree was a symbol of peace, and olive wreathes were awarded to victors of Olympic games, and were worn by brides in ancient Greek culture. In the Bible, olive branches were used regularly to signal the end of a conflict or the approval of a higher power. God sent Noah a dove with an olive branch in its mouth to alert him to the end of the great flood. Still today, to “extend an olive branch” is to make an attempt to end conflict. The flag of the United Nations depicts the world with two olive branches on either side, symbolizing its goal of world peace. William Shakespeare stated in Henry IV, Part II: “Peace puts forth her olive everywhere.” Olive oil was an important part of Jewish culture because of its many uses, being considered the “king of trees.” Regarding the menorah in the Tabernacle, God told Moses in Leviticus 24:2: “Command the children of Israel that they bring to you pure oil of pressed olives for the light, to make the lamps burn continually.” Olive oil was a symbol of honor, joy, and favor, and was used to anoint the head and body.  Hosea 14:6 says: “Your branches will spread with the beauty of an olive tree.” So extend your branches, your fruit, your oil, Olivia, and anoint peace to those around you. (Pass this on to an Olivia you know.)

If your name is Sarah or Sara

Sarah is Jewish, French, and English, from the Hebrew word sarah meaning “princess, royal, noble one.” Sara is the English, German, Italian, Scandinavian, and Spanish form of Sarah. The word “noble” means to have eminence and to show high moral qualities. The urban dictionary describes this more specifically: a princess is one who carries herself with poise and dignity. She listens attentively, and when she speaks, she chooses her words carefully. She exercises control over her emotions and makes choices based on what’s right rather than on how she feels. She also thinks of others, trusts herself, is humble and doesn’t demand or expect special treatment from others. She is kind and generous. This is a far cry from the spoiled princess that we often hear about! A Hindu proverb says: “There is nothing noble in being superior to some other person. True nobility comes from being superior to your previous self.” And Harriet Beecher Stowe wrote: “True love ennobles and dignifies.” You are here to ennoble others and to call out their own nobility. Genesis 17:15-16 says: “God said unto Abraham: “As for Sarai thy wife, thou shalt not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall her name be….I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations; kings of peoples shall be of her.” Be not a spoiled princess, but rather, be noble in character and you will be a true princess.
 
Pass this on to a Sarah you know.

If your name is Diane or Diana

If your name is Diane or Diana, it is from the Latin word divus meaning “divine, shine one.” Diane was the Roman goddess of the hunt, the moon, and childbirth. She was associated with wild animals and woodland, had the power to talk to animals, and found oak groves especially sacred. There is something very wild about her nature. Thoreau once said: “All good things are wild and free.” The dictionary defines “divine” as “of or belonging to God,” and it is usually associated with goodness. Divine qualities are described in the Jewish Kabalah’s Tree of Life as being: the eternal present, wisdom, justice, mercy, beauty, truth, harmony, empathy, stewardship, and success. You are endued with divine qualities. You have within you the ability to be wise, just, and compassionate. You also hold within you beauty and truth. Ella Wheeler Wilcox said in “Resolve!”: The spark divine dwells in thee: let it grow.” Let let your light grow and shine. As Marianne Williamson said in Return to Love: “As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.”
 
Pass this on to a Diane or Diana you know.

Winter

The winter season is known as the dark season because it is the season of the year which has the shortest amount of daily sunlight. With the sun not rising right now until nearly 8:00 in the morning and setting by 5:00 in the evening, it makes for a lot of darkness, especially to those who commute to work each day. In the natural world, we know that winter allows the soil to rest and replenish, and it gives foliage a way to rid itself of old growth in order to make room for the new growth of spring. Trees appear stark and barren, as if they were dead, yet we all know that life pulses deep within their roots. The energy that is needed for plants to replenish themselves lies deep within and underground. In many ways, winter is the most important season because nature’s foundational work is being done. Ursula LeGuin once said: “Our roots are in the dark….Not in the light that blinds, but in the dark that nourishes, where human beings grow human souls.” Winter is a time to be especially compassionate to ourselves and to others. It is a time to share the warmth of a fire and of a smile. As a Japanese proverb states: “One kind word can warm three winter months.” Winter is a time where “grace growth best,” according to Samuel Rutherford, so allow yourself to be in accord with the rhythm and the patience of this blessed season.